Sitting here, wishing someone would not agree with me on this. Hoping that someone has the balls to step up and tell me that I just made a big mistake.
Then I realize the only one I know who would have the balls to do that is the person I just broke up with.
Hanging out with a friend yesterday, I showed off my new key chain. It’s a little apple that covers the top portion of the key like a hat. She saw it and got really excited and then of course I realized how much I love it and how much I loved just not thinking about the current woes in my life resulting in me scrunching my face up and exclaiming “yeah I know! it’s such an aaaangry aaaaapple!” And because she is a good friend she quickly called me on my excited retardation and how I sounded like I was learning my vowels for the first time.
And I appreciated that. And I still love my angry apple key chain.
Because they’re bird-brained.
A few years ago, shortly after potting all of my plants in April, I noticed the flowers in my hanging basket were smushed. The dirt had been pushed around and twigs, grass, and random strands of yarn were hanging off the side. I think I pulled all the crap out of the basket and fluffed up the flowers about 3 times before I realized what was going on. I saw the doves hanging around on the fence and then one evening I noticed the dove sitting in my flower basket, and it didn’t move for 3 weeks. I’ve probably gone through $200+ worth of plants before finally establishing a patio garden that I could keep up, and now a dove thought it suitable for a home. How sweet.
So for three weeks I tiptoed out onto the porch to water my plants, ducked underneath the hanging basket so the birds wouldn’t feel threatened. I wouldn’t turn on the patio light in the evenings. I’d open the blinds gently so as not to startle them in the morning. I’d peak through the blinds on rainy evenings to ensure they weren’t getting soaked in their nest. I made the effort.
One morning I noticed the doves had left the nest. I checked back in the afternoon and the dove was on the edge of the basket peering in. When the dove flew away again I took a mirror and hung it over the basket so I could peer down – fully expecting to see little baby birds saying hi. Not expecting to find 3 baby chicks smothered and squished down in the dirt. Little frickers killed their babies and left me to deal with the mess. I got on boy’s shoulders so I could take the basket down – the basket smelled and I probably shrieked. Boy took the basket from me, walked to the dumpster and tossed the babies, dirt and plant out. All the while the two doves sat on the fence and watched us eerily.
And doves have harassed me ever since. They pick at my wreaths and try to nest in my patio plants. I hop out of bed at 7 am on Saturdays when I hear them cooing on my porch railing so I can shoo them away. And tonite when I walked up to my apartment, a dove startled me by flying straight up, hitting the ceiling, then straight sideways into the wall before exiting out into the open where it once again flew sideways into the side of the building. Maybe they’re a gift from god meant to warn atheists of eternal doom if they don’t repent. God would have been better off choosing wild turkeys. Because turkeys are awesome.
There’s a guy in my calculus class who has all the right answers. He volunteers solutions when the professor stumbles, he works ahead of the problems being discussed, and he thwacks his pencil on that 10 pound calc book.
His pencil is this fancy mechanical bright orange wand that has white adornments all over it and I’m pretty sure it was created in a 007 lab in Europe.
I’m going to Target to see if they sell ’em – because really, passing calculus is all about the proper pencil.
I know I’m an adult now and these little things shouldn’t matter as much. Decisions I make now are for me.
But when Papa says “I’m proud of you, darlin'” I still glow for a few days afterward.
A teary-eyed phone call to a friend at 11 pm, a bad tummy on a foggy morning, and being the girl who was spat upon on the way into work.
no, not me. it’s gonna take more than that to get me down.
Someone did a search for this and ended up at my blog:
“everyone i have cared about has left me ”
I lived with a girl who cleaned all the time. And when she wasn’t cleaning she was at school. And when she wasn’t at school she was at work. And when she wasn’t at work and wasn’t cleaning she was gardening, painting, planning the next thing. Always moving, always looking for the next thing. And when I lived with her, I tried to stay away from the dust she stirred up. I had never been more fit, because while she was running around the house I was running as far away as I could and then back again. Like a yo-yo.
And I wondered if she could ever sit still, and just be alone with herself. So I promised myself I wouldn’t be like that, constantly in motion.
And in Louisiana I just wanted to leave the humidity. In college I just wanted to leave the madness. In Florida I wanted to leave the ignorance. And when I moved to Cali I wanted to hurry up and settle – hence buying the big expensive dining table because that’s a sure sign that your relationship is going to last forever.
I like my table. I’m glad I bought it and I’m glad I managed to get it into my 429 sq ft of space. And I’m going to sit here by myself, because I can’t be bothered with distractions.
Except the no food in the apartment distraction.